Changing spark plugs 95 V6

Had difficulty preparing the diagram. Here is a video: How to Replace Spark Plug Wire Set 95-97 Honda Accord - YouTube
I'll try again as you won't be amused by that. Cylinder Firing Orders & Engine Diagrams - AutoZone Hmm, still trying.
4 - 3 - 2 - 1 for the spark plug wire routing of a 1997 Honda
If you need more information on how to replace the spark plug wires on your Honda Accord, you can check out this video tutorial from 1A Auto. It provides step-by-step instructions for properly replacing the spark plug wires on a 1995 Honda Accord V6 2.7L, but the procedure is similar for all 95-97 Honda Accord V6 2.7L models.

check coolant level -oil level and condition if milky --but water in spark plug holes is an indication of blown head gasket --cracked head--block or intake

I really needs checking against the spark plugs you have chosen? .045" is about right for most.

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What is the Spark plug gap on 95 olds cutlass Cierra? - Answers

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Aug. 4, 2007 - Standard gap is .060" or 1/16".Ask at auto parts counter when purchasing spark plugs. What is the 1972 olds cutlass 2 barrel spark plug gap ...

.054 inch.

You have to replace the Valve cover gasket. Inside the spark plug hole, midway down is a gasket, every spark plug hole has them, you cant see it because its, well a gasket pressed against two very tight suface every spark plug hole, When these leak they fil up the sprkplug cavity, as you know. Go to a parts store, spend $30 dollars on a VALVE COVER GASKET SET. If reparied properly wiil be a 100% fix. If it's a 4 cylinder honda,, a monkey with downs syndrom could do this in five minutes. V6 accord, save yourself the time, grief and heart ache, and take it to a Professional.

the gap is .045

assuming you have v6 3.0 you have to remove air intake,
then there are 5/16' nut holding on ing. coil remove nut
lift out
spark plug is way down in hole.......

May be totally unrelated but I had the same issue on a 95 civic. It has "spark plug seals" that needed to be replaced. Dealer did it for about $250.

Would recommend a complete tuneup. Check the air filter first, then visble vaccum lines.

Depending on weather its a V6 or 4cyl the are in the center of the engine cover(s) in a row, if its a 4cyl pull the 4 plug leads out and a long spark plug wrench will go down the hole to unscrew the sparkplugs, if its a V6 then unscrew the 6 screw and the pull out the 6 coils from the center of the engine covers to reveal the spark plugs