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are you able to get wifi in that room?it sounds like youve lost connection between your network and the bluray,look in your owners manual for sony bluray and follow steps to connect to wifi.if you dont have your manual try this link.http://tv.manualsonline.com/manuals/mfg/sony/bdps350.html