What programme can I use toget flash player on Apple ipad

Apple has never supported Flash on iOS devices (iPad or iPhone). You need to download SkyFire browser in the App store if you're viewing content that requires Flash Player. Good luck.

flash player is not supprted by ipad due to unstable & unreliable function...- html5 is much better...
- but you can download a browser app like puffin, photon etc. which emulate a flashplayer somehow...:

How To Play Flash Videos On Your iPhone iPod Touch and iPad

No, there is not. And until Apple changes their policy on Flash, there never will be.

I would try the solution by Tim Spracklen at http://www.ipadforums.net/ipad-help/19876-bbc-iplayer-cant-stream-tv-programmes.html it may help you

Apple's iOS devices such as iPads, iPhones, and iPods do not support flash. This is the reason that installing from Adobe failed.

iOS does not support Flash. At this point, Apple is focused on Flash alternatives (HTML5, QuickTime)

Hello,
Apple will not allow true adobe flash to run on the IPAD or the IPAD 2. In the future they may let Microsoft Silverlight run on it, but as of now, both technologies are not supported. There are third party services out there being developed that will stream / proxy serve, flash content, but tend to be slow buggy and unpractical.
Right now the Blackberry Playbook is looking good as it has full support for flash.
I don't think you will ever see flash truly available for the IPAD as Apple is directly competing with Adobe. Their way to compete head to head would be to include silverlight support which is supposed to happen sometime this year. Its a political corporate battle and the customer is what suffers.
If you want to try a third party approach that converts flash to html5 for use on the IPAD, follow this link: http://www.skyfire.com/
Regards, Chris

Yes, jailbreaking your iPad is the fast solution, and if you prefer a simple yet fast fix to jailbreak your iOS device. You can take a try of AutomaticiPhoneUnlockers, it can help jailbreak or unlock as many iPad, iPhones, iPod Touches as you like. After that you can install any apps on the device.

Ipad does not support adobe flash.