Fixya is an advice forum for do it yourself inclined people wanting info on repairs, advice on projects for the home etc. We are not a clearing house for music information.
I will pray for you. Have you both considered applying at the Detroit Opera House? Try to friend Pete Moore on Facebook. He works there. I'm retired from there now. Pete is one of the teachers at the DOH. He might be able to direct you to the right prople if your interested.